Know you and the others.

 

Know you and the others.

First of all, we should understand “who am I”, thereby our strengths, weaknesses, and skills can be identified by us. That should help us to make the right decision in our lives and make them successful. When we live in a society, identifying others is also important to deal with them.

Do people understand you always?

Everyone couldn’t understand us. A few people are in our comfort zone. Most of people listen and give feedback with their views. Because all of us are different from each other and have unique characteristics. Then we should identify the people who have the correct view of the relevant situation and who can control that moment.

·        Why are we the way we are?

Our behaviors can be affected by the things which occurred before we were born. Also, the behaviors come up with the behaviors of our parents, siblings, and whom we met and deal with always. Because those activities were imitated. Then Parents and elders can directly influence our behaviors. Everyone has core behavior and moderated behavior. If we have no limitations, we all have a dream character that we want to be. That’s called core behavior. Limitations can be culture, elders’ attitudes,  family background, or surroundings. Moderated behavior is our current characteristics and attitudes.

·        How to understand human behavior?

There are four primary behavior types, and they can be represented by colours.

 

Blue(Analytical)

Searching and analysing is the major feature. Those people think well before they do something and try their best to do it. But it may be affected to avoid participating or lower interest in a relationship. Because they think that it will be uncertain.

Red(Dominant)

They try to control others. Getting decisions quickly, giving orders to others, lower interest in a relationship with other parties are some of these characteristics. Also, there may be an avoidance of participation.

 

Green( Stable)

These people are working with others cooperatively and are friendly. Also easy to work with them. There are no destructive arguments with others. But they don’t have the ability to make decisions quickly.

Yellow(Inspiring)

They can make a comfort zone surrounding others. because they can interact with others properly. Talkative is another quality of them. Thereby others’ ideas and opinions can vanish. because they talk throughout the whole conversation.

What are the behaviors of me?

According to the above behaviors, I have green and yellow behavior types. Because I am a talkative and friendly person. But I give respect to others’ ideas too. I can make a comfortable area for any new member. Also, I know, sometimes I talk too much, and I try to talk only at the right moments.